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‘Men seem to make life for women worse’: single US women share the woes of dating in 2025

Here’s why some women feel like there’s little hope in the current dating pool of men – if they’re still in the market for one

Looking for Alice

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The thing it turns out lots of us want

Last month I posted a questionnaire. Here’s what you said

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Judge your Bluesky posts in a dating-app format.

Mindlessness in the interpretation of a study on mindlessness (and why you shouldn’t use the word “whom” in your dating profile)

This is a long post, so let me give you the tl;dr right away: Don’t use the word “whom” in your dating profile.

The Weirdness of Dating/Mating: Deep Nonconsent Preference — LessWrong

Every time I see someone mention statistics on nonconsent kink online, someone else is surprised by how common it is. So let’s start with some statis…

Why won't you answer my question?

I've spent more time than I would like to admit on various Q&A sites and forums related to development, where I have answered thousands of questions. Generally, the questions stay within the confines of such forums, however after waking up to my personal inbox being flooded with a

Someone’s underperforming. Now what?

14 questions to ask an employee who’s struggling during your next one-on-one meeting so you can figure out how to best help. Someone’s slipping. You see it. You feel it. You’re not on the same page…

How to ask good questions

How to ask good questions

Not My Type | Stanford University Press

In the world of online dating, race-based discrimination is not only tolerated, but encouraged as part of a pervasive belief that it is simply a neutral, personal choice about one's romantic partner. Indeed, it is so much a part of our inherited wisdom about dating and romance that it actually directs the algorithmic infrastructures of most major online dating platforms, such that they openly reproduce racist and sexist hierarchies.

Northsky Update #5: We're sending invites!

We’re sending out invites to our subscribers starting next week! We’ve been hard at work on our migration tool, testing and tweaking with even the largest and oldest accounts (stress testing), and refining the process with feedback. All to say, we’re ready to start taking users.

Why rejection hurts so much — and what to do about it

Psychologist Guy Winch shares some practical tips for soothing the sting of rejection.

Lovee AI: AI for Relationships & Couples

Emotionally intelligent AI for couples. Voice coaching, honest feedback, zero judgment.

mikeash.com: Getting Answers

I hang out in several programmer related chats and forums and I see a lot of people having trouble getting answers. They get no answers, poor answers, or absorb a lot of verbal abuse. As a person asking questions, there are some simple things you can do to help your chances of getting good answers. This guide will show you ten easy things you can do to ensure your questions are answered quickly and well.