The "Girl's Girl" is the ultimate woman who supports women...or is she? Get Nebula with my link for 40% off an annual subscription: https://go.nebula.tv/romooknee Or get a Nebula lifetime subscription here: https://go.nebula.tv/lifetime?ref=taramooknee My related videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAzPm4PXhgY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAzPm4PXhgY Follow me: https://www.instagram.com/romooknee/ https://www.patreon.com/c/romooknee Chapters: 1:06 It’s a girls’ girl world 17:00 Decoding “Girl Code” 41:05 In defence: The Girls’ Girl™ v Girl Code™ 58:16 Sister Surveillance AKA “The Girlfriend Gaze” 1:18:43 The Linguistics of it all 1:24:54 So…is it feminism? 1:30:54 Patrons & Subscription Pet Shoutout 🫎 Sources: Videos: 1. @Shanspeare https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaKs8iJpG6c&t=1198s 2. & https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDEOZqnJMqI 3. @elleliteracy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLXKgq9eNas 4. @sophjbutler https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ib5cElquZ8Y&t=1542s 5. @jordanatheresa https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QDu4e6--NlA&t=1286s TV: 1. Unfabulous S1 E10 2. Love Island UK S5 3. Gilmore Girls S1 E21 4. AlRawabi School for Girls S1 E4 5. Sex & the City (mentioned) 6. The Bold Type (mentioned) Films: 1. The Princess Diaries (2001) 2. A Cinderella Story (2004) 3. Angus, Thongs and Perfect Snogging (2008) 4. Freaky Friday (2003) Songs: 1. @TaylorSwift https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VuNIsY6JdUw 2. @paramore https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aCyGvGEtOwc 3. @AvrilLavigne https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bg59q4puhmg 4. @ThePussycatDolls https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bg59q4puhmg 5. @KatyPerry https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVIJUH29pjU Articles: 1. https://theeverygirl.com/what-it-means-to-be-girls-girl/ 2. https://universitygirlsu.com/feelgood/2023/10/26/whats-a-girls-girl 3. https://mashable.com/article/girls-girl-meaning-taylor-swift 4. https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/signs-youre-a-girls-girl_n_5072553 5. https://weirdmedievalguys.substack.com/p/the-coolest-medieval-woman-youve 6. https://feeld.co/ask-feeld/how-to/what-is-a-girls-girl 7. https://www.elle.com/life-love/sex-relationships/a46663705/not-a-girls-girl-insult-explained/ 8. https://academicworks.cuny.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1212&context=gc_pubs 9. https://www.bbc.co.uk/worklife/article/20230823-girl-trends-are-sticky-and-fun-but-they-can-also-be-problematic 10. https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m0006m3m 11. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a36997244/girl-code/ 12. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Bro_Code 13. https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BrosBeforeHoes 14. https://www.reddit.com/r/AutismInWomen/comments/1iuj2p6/anyone_else_not_a_girls_girl/ 15. https://theconversation.com/the-myth-that-women-secretly-hate-other-women-has-a-long-history-47919 16. https://www.thecourieronline.co.uk/what-is-a-girls-girl/ 17. https://elizabethbrake.com/amatonormativity/ 18. https://www.hercampus.com/school/gcu/what-it-means-to-be-a-girls-girl/ 19. https://www.anabelmagazine.com/news/79767/cfare-do-te-thote-te-jesh-nje-girl-s-girl-dhe-pse-eshte-kaq-e-rendesishme 20. https://www.stylist.co.uk/life/girls-girl-meaning-why-we-judge-other-women/863098 21. https://www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/62418/1/girl-s-girl-feminism-is-bullshit-pick-me 22. https://mega-asia.com/lifestyle/culture/all-the-things-a-girls-girl-would-never-do/ 23. https://research.gold.ac.uk/id/eprint/32186/ 24. https://news-archive.hud.ac.uk/news/allstories/thegirlfriendgaze-20march2013.php 25. https://styledbyuna.substack.com/p/the-problem-with-girls-girl Xtra sources: 1. https://medium.com/@IsThatHer/the-girl-code-c222adf89011 2. https://www.willistonian.org/ten-unbreakable-rules-of-girl-code/ 3. https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/girl-code-olivia-wilde-harry-styles-emily-ratajkowski-b2327988.html 4. https://www.adventurebook.com/connect/girl-code/ 5. https://thoughtcatalog.com/rachel-anna/2016/03/50-rules-of-girl-code-we-all-need-to-read-again/ 6. https://www.stylist.co.uk/life/love-island-megan-hanson-wes-nelson-casa-amor-girl-code-cheat/214619 7. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Girl%27s%20girl 8. https://medium.com/counterarts/neo-feminism-demands-you-become-a-girls-girl-c99ac6f7afd4 9. https://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Girl%27s-Girl 10. https://www.queensjournal.ca/stop-buying-the-girls-girl-myth/ 11. https://metro.co.uk/2023/08/04/can-you-ever-trust-a-woman-whos-not-a-girls-girl-19267660/ 12. https://inews.co.uk/opinion/the-girls-girl-is-no-friend-to-women-3264699?srsltid=AfmBOorAK2y54R8DukIjAmlbYal9GsvxoWdAt8KY6sB0_qxhaot8UWbR 13. https://www.buzzfeed.com/dannicaramirez/signs-of-not-being-a-girls-girl 14. https://tinyurl.com/3snkhddt 15. https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1226&context=sigma 16. https://tinyurl.com/yyj5xykt 17. https://www.hercampus.com/school/bu/girls-support-girls-reductive-or-revolutionary/ 18. https://theboar.org/2024/06/shes-a-girls-girl/
Identity, Gender, and VRChat (Why is everyone in VR an anime girl?)
A Marketplace of Girl Influencers Managed by Moms and Stalked by Men (Published 2024)
Seeking social media stardom for their underage daughters, mothers post images of them on Instagram. The accounts draw men sexually attracted to children, and they sometimes pay to see more.
Megan | @megievalist on Twitter / X
The girls need to drop their resentment against men!These female characters, by virtue of sheer skill and discipline, are able to perform on par with male characters whose talent is attributed to divine intervention or external influence.Perspective issue! https://t.co/EmEgtU0kjx— Megan | @megievalist (@megievalist) November 1, 2026
Wired women : gender and new realities in cyberspace
Come in, CQ: the body on the wire / Ellen Ullman -- The memoirs of a token: an aging Berkeley feminist examines Wired / Paulina Borsook -- How hard can it be? / Karen Coyle -- Closure was never a goal in this piece / Judy Malloy and Cathy Marshall -- Estrogen brigades and "big tits" threads: media fandom online and off / Susan Clerc -- Elites, lamers, narcs and whores: exploring the computer underground / Netta "grayarea" Gilboa -- We are geeks, and we are not guys: the systers mailing list / L. Jean Camp -- Not for the faint of heart: contemplations on Usenet / Judy Anderson "yduJ" -- The price of admission: harassment and free speech in the wild, wild West / Stephanie Brail -- Sex, fear and condescension on campus: cybercensorship at Carnegie Mellon / Donna M. Riley -- Cocktails and thumbtacks in the old West: what would Emily Post say? / Laurel A. Sutton -- "So please stop, thank you": girls online / Michele Evard -- MUDder? I hardly know 'er: adventures of a feminist MUDder / Lori Kendall -- Like magic, only real / Tari Lin Fanderclai -- Coming apart at the seams: sex, text and the virtual body / Shannon McRae; Includes bibliographical references; Ellen Ullman shares an email courtship - Paulina Borsook exposes gender attitudes at the digerati's magazine of record - Karen Coyle on overcoming macho stereotypes - Judy Malloy and Cathy Marshall reflect on their art/research collaboration - Susan Clerc and the zeal of media fandom - Netta Gilboa explores hackers' attitudes toward women - Jean Camp on the Internet's safe havens - Judy Anderson's advice on dodging Usenet flames - Stephanie Brail seeks the line between free speech and harassment - Donna Riley reveals the story of the Clitoral Hoods - Laurel Sutton and the nuances of netiquette - Michele Evard takes news-groups to the fifth grade - Lori Kendall wonders if gender is meaningless online - Tari Lin Fanderclai on MUDs as a powerful teaching tool - Shannon McRae takes a look at "virtual sex"
Gender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity
One of the most talked-about scholarly works of the past fifty years, Judith Butler’s Gender Trouble is as celebrated as it is controversial.Arguing that traditional feminism is wrong to look to a natural, 'essential' notion of the female, or indeed of sex or gender, Butler starts by questioning the category 'woman' and continues in this vein with examinations of 'the masculine' and 'the feminine'. Best known however, but also most often misinterpreted, is Butler's concept of gender as a reiterated social performance rather than the expression of a prior reality.Thrilling and provocative, few other academic works have roused passions to the same extent.
Social Constructs (or, 'What is A Woman, Really?')
Feminism | The Paper Pilot
The Paper Pilot's digital garden of thoughts on philosophy, politics, and sociology
Who's Afraid of Gender? (A Guide to Judith Butler)
Who's Afraid of Gender? (A Guide to Judith Butler)
Feminist Icon Gloria Steinem Was An Anti-Communist CIA Operative who Kept Feminism From Discussing Class
Declassified Cold War Ties Show How U.S. Intelligence Shaped Feminism’s Focus On Gender Over Class.
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THIS IS GENDERED – The feminist encyclopedia
THIS IS GENDERED is a feminist encyclopedia. We believe everything is gendered. The entries in this encyclopedia demonstrate just this. Use the search bar to read up on the gender dimension of a topic of your interest.
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Feminist Technology
Feminist technology is not related to one specific community of practice, but it has been a field of research and has led to and is still leading to practices that are very valuable in the context of sustainable tech.
During the mass influx of users to Bluesky during the '24 election, I saw the need to carve out a space for real [femme] adult creators. The biggest related hashtags at the time like #NSFW were mostly art, furries, gay Twitter, and stolen porn. OF girls couldn't get seen.
